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Nov. 27, 2023

#357 - Jesus' Eyes Were So BLUE - Dr. Joye's NDEs

#357 - Jesus' Eyes Were So BLUE - Dr. Joye's NDEs
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Round Trip Death

Dr. Joye Pugh had her first experience when she was just 6 years old and another NDE 20 years ago. Through her own experiences, and research, she has become an authority on Near Death Experiences.

In this episode we discuss many different people's experiences and what we can learn from them. Everyone who meets Jesus wants to stay there, but many are sent back. What it's like to go back into a broken body. We also discuss advice for clergy and how to know if someone's experience is real and true.

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From the time that they pronounced me deaf was a good 45 minutes.

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They cut my clothes and then they paddled my heart, my heart had stopped.

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And I could see people screaming and crying, but I didn't realize that was actually my

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physical body because I was somewhere else.

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The only thing that I could feel, if you could imagine, absolute love and peace, there wasn't

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anything else to be felt.

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I was greeted by people I'd known in the past.

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I'm back home again.

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Incredibly safe and felt at home.

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Welcome to Round Trip Death, everybody, and welcome to our very special guest from South

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Florida, Dr. Joy Pugh.

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How are you today, Joy?

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I'm doing good in the South Georgia, but I am very close to Florida.

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But I'm in the very end of Georgia, down by the Okefenoke Swamp, where the most people

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have heard about and cartoons and things of that nature.

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We're going through a little cold snap.

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And of course, it's really pretty in South Georgia.

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I just appreciate you asking me to be on your show today and look forward to our discussion.

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You're welcome.

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And whether it's Georgia or Florida, we'll just call you a Southern Belle.

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How's that?

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Thank you so much.

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I do have a little bit of a Southern drawl.

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That's okay.

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We like it.

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Before we jump into your NDE and other experiences that you've had in your life, which are, there's

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a lot of them, tell us just a little bit about you.

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And I'm going to throw in first, you're a very prolific writer.

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You've written a bunch of books.

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Tell us a little bit about that in your life in general.

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Well, I've written 15 books, and most of them are about the end of days and about end

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of times.

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So they are all nonfiction books that I write.

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And then I have a couple of unique books that talk about my life.

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One parables of joy on a Georgia farm that talks about a dream that I had when I was

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six years of age and really saw what I believed was the end of time and actually absolutely

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saw what I believed was Jesus.

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And so since I was a little girl, writing and putting things down on paper have been

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very important to me.

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And I was fortunate when I was born that the first week that I was here on this earth,

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my grandparents took me to church.

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And of course, I came to know the Lord and was saved at the age of 11 in a southern Baptist

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church here in South Georgia, not far from where I live.

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And so all of my work revolves around the understanding of where we are in this particular

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age in which we are living.

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I mean, that was one of the things that I grew up wanting to know more than anything after

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having this dream at age six, that I would live to see what I am now seeing in the headlines

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across the world.

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So everything that I have done in all the work that I do, again, is nonfiction and to

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have had my work in a large variety, I guess, of platforms.

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And I feel very, I guess, humbled because I feel like God really put me on a path to

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do what I do.

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And I really want people to understand that we are not just grains of sand floating in

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the space.

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Every one of us has a rhyme and a reason to be here.

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And I think that's one of the things that over the course of my life and having seen

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and heard about people who had near-death experiences, why I always incorporated that into my research

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and why I always took the time to try to find people or to let people know that I was interested

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in this field of work and would have them come and sit down and we would have a long

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discussion and let me record them and talk to them and that kind of thing.

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And really, my hope was is to take and correlate all that information together for people to

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see that we don't die.

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You know, Scripture has always told us that we do not really die.

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It says, the physical body goes to sleep, but it never tells us that our spirit body

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and our soul ever die.

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So anything that kind of correlates to my work and confirms it gives it more credibility.

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And in a world in which we are living now where fake news is the big thing, I want people

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when they read my work to know that I have done every possible rabbit hole to make sure

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that I give you the complete truth of what is out there.

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And maybe that goes back because my undergraduate work for two years was in pre-law.

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My father always wanted to be an attorney.

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So when you read my work, I put you in a box and I kind of box you in with all the information.

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I've thought about every possible possibility of every question you might ask in regard

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to that particular thing that I'm discussing with you because I want you to know the truth

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because I believe the truth will set you free.

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Oh, I'll bet you haven't thought of all my questions.

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I'm hoping that this is how I learned.

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My listeners know I come up with some weird stuff and it's how I learn.

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And so I appreciate it.

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You mentioned end of days and end of time.

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What's the difference?

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Well, the end of days is what we see as it being like a 24-hour period.

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And I think that that's the thing that's most interesting to me is how in scripture it talks

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about that there will come a time when we will go through a period when everything will

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change to something different than what it is now.

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And because I've studied what light is and what pure light is, I believe that time actually

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stands still from a scientific standpoint is that it is all-encompassing.

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So it's not like our 24-hour days that we have on this planet because in reality, whether

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you're on this planet or you're on Mars or if you're on Jupiter or Saturn, the days

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are totally different.

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So time in essence is different because it's spinning at a different frequency.

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And frequency is something that I've been very interested in.

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In fact, in my new book, Be Smart, that has just come out, I talk about a lot of what

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frequency and how it affects us because time is really based on us, on the earth, but it's

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not time in general because of infinity.

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And then the end of time, we think about when we talk about Jesus and God and how our

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Alpha and Omega, we can understand that from Alpha to Omega, and if we think about eternity,

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then it's just on and on and on and on and on.

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So the time that we know as a 24-hour period of time, once we either step into a field

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of paradise or into a gate of hell, that time will become something that is eternal.

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It's not like night and day, 24 hours, sun, moon, morning, the next day.

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And people that have had NDEs say that when they were out of their body, away from here,

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that time did not exist.

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That's a very common thing that people say.

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Totally different.

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And I know that we're going to talk about what happened to me about 20 something years

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ago, and that is that I feel like that I absolutely was out of my body.

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I don't know whether I had quit breathing, have no idea whether I had quit breathing.

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I was laying flat down on the bed next to my husband, and all of a sudden, which I was

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usually a stomach sleeper.

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I like to roll over and sleep on my stomach since I was a child, but it was like all of

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a sudden I was standing on the outside of our bed on the side actually facing the lake

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where I live, and the curtains were drawn behind me, and I could see the room clearly.

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It was dimly lit like at night when you would be asleep.

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And I remember standing there and looking at the bed, and I'm seeing myself laying in

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that position flat on my stomach, and him actually sitting and laying facing straight

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up looking at the ceiling, of course he was asleep.

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And I stood there looking at that, and then all of a sudden I look down at me, and I'm

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like, it's still me, and I am still here.

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And then my mind, I knew, you know, my husband meowing the bed, I knew that that was me laying

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there, but at the same time I was like standing out there knowing that this is me too.

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And my mind was there, and I'm so processing all of this, and it's quite like, you just,

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unless you ever have this happen, it's hard to describe how amazing that is.

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It's absolutely amazing to know that you can get outside of your body.

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You know, I'm standing there just observing everything because that's me.

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I ask a million questions, I've always been that way, so I'm like observing everything,

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everything.

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And then all of a sudden it's like I'm pulled back into my body, and when I get back into

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my body, immediately my eyes open up.

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I remember the pillow being right in front of my face and taking my hands because I was

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always athletic, just like a push-up.

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And I took my hands straight up and pushed straight back into bed and come straight up

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off the bed.

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And I'm looking around because I knew that I had been outside of my body.

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I was in exactly the position that I had seen myself in.

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And of course my husband, who had been asleep, when I come straight off of that bed, pushing

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back like that, and I'm just grasping for air.

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So I don't know whether, again, I had stopped breathing.

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I don't know.

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But I will tell you, I was grasping for air and breathing very hard.

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My heart was going 100 miles an hour, and I'm like looking at me and making sure I'm

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okay, but it's like, what just happened to me?

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And of course he's jumping up thinking something terrible is wrong, and he's trying to comfort

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me, and I'm kind of just trying to get air in, and it's scaring him.

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And then finally, when I finally quit doing all of that, and he's understanding that I'm

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not dying or something weird thing, I'm like, you just won't believe what just happened.

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And of course he was trying to console me, it'll be okay, you're okay, because I think

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he was so scared by the way I was trembling and breathing.

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But we finally talked about it a little bit, and at that point in time, I was not really

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understanding what really just happened to me.

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Did I die?

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Was I dead?

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There was all these questions just coming into my mind.

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I remember that night, he laid back down, and I don't know if he ever went back to sleep,

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but I'm going to tell you, Eric, I never went back to sleep.

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I laid there, I'm looking at the ceiling, I look over to my left, and I'd see where I

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had been standing, and I would look at, and it looked identical, the lighting in the room

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at that time of the morning, everything.

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So I had to have seen it.

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It was not like I could have dreamed it.

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I knew that what had happened to me was that I had been on face down on that bed, I saw

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myself, I've been standing over there in front of those blinds, how the room, everything

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looked, how he looked laying there, sleeping, everything, it was just everything.

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And so I did not go back to sleep.

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I don't know whether I didn't go back to sleep because I was scared that I had almost died,

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and maybe I just wanted to feel my heart keep beating.

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Maybe you were afraid it was going to happen again.

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I don't know.

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I don't think I'm scared of dying.

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I just think it was just a revelation.

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Does that make sense?

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Yeah, but tell me more about that.

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This was a very brief experience, and just to remind our listeners, NDEs, near-death

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experiences include some other definitions like outer-body experiences, some spiritually

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transformative experiences, things like that.

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And I think some people, I don't know, maybe they don't give enough credibility or something

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to an experience they've had because it was very brief, like what you're talking about.

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And that's one of the reasons that I wanted you to talk about this today, because it's

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probably more relatable to some people that haven't had their heart stop and they had

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the big experience through the tunnel and the light and met other beings and things

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like that.

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These things can be very short and sweet, and as in your case, you can learn a whole

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lot from it too.

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Yes.

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I think that that was the thing, is because I have always wanted to know what it was like

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in the spiritual realm, and of course reading and scripture about where different prophets

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were able to see in the spiritual realm and how they would talk about the things that

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were there.

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It just gave me, and I always believe this.

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I believe God allowed that to happen to me so that the work that I do and the people

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that I've talked to and that have had near-death experiences that I didn't laugh it off, that

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I took them very seriously, that I ask every question I could ask of that experience, watching

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how they reacted and how it manifested in their lives, how it changed their lives.

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Because it's like this, it's like seeing is believing, and we know that even when Jesus

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died on the cross, he had a disciple that said, unless I see him, I'm not going to believe

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you all that he's alive.

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Unfortunately, we're all that way, whether it be people seeing a UFO or a UAP, they call

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them now.

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Seeing is believing, and so I really believe that because the Lord called me to do the

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work in the ministry that I do, that He has allowed many things, not just this, but many

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things for me to have to walk through because my life has had a lot of hills and valleys

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of things that people would never dream that I've walked through.

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But it's allowed me to have that understanding at a level that you need to have when you're

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dealing with people under certain circumstances.

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And I think that made me, this experience made me understand definitely life after death.

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Definitely my spirit body looks like my physical body.

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Definitely that my mind is not laying in that so-called physical shell.

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It is with me.

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It has not left me.

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I am always going to be me like scripture says, the spirit and the soul never die.

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So the moment you step out of that body, you are you and you know who you are and you know

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where you are and you know the people you're looking at.

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So that helped me when I had people coming in to sit down to do consultations or counseling

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or just wanting help to understand what did they go through and I need to talk to someone

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about it.

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And I think that gave me, if they wanted to take 10 hours, Eric, to talk about it, I took

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10 hours to talk about it.

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And you've done that for counseling and for your research.

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I'm just curious.

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Tell me maybe a couple of questions that you've asked that have come up that have had some

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really sort of, oh, I don't want to call them outlandish answers, but some really special

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fun answers.

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And what are some of your favorite questions?

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And I'll try to keep them in mind so I can do my job better here too.

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Sure.

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I had a, I'll talk about one of the near-death experiences, one of the guys that I knew.

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He was married to a girl that I actually went to high school with.

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She was a little bit younger than I was.

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And he went down to have a liver transplant in Jacksonville and he was waiting to get

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the liver transplant and he died on the operating table, was pronounced dead the whole nine

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yards.

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And so because the girl knew about my work, when her husband started talking about what

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had happened to him, she says, oh, I just want you to tell Dr. Joy, please, please promise

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me.

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So her mother still went to church where I went to church and she told me that her daughter

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and husband were really wanting to speak with me about something.

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And unfortunately, Christians, unfortunately, don't want to talk about stuff like that.

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They're scared.

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I mean, I can tell you stories about people that don't want to stand up and say anything

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about it.

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I'm like, it proves to us that there's life after death.

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But anyway, this man, he asked me if I would speak with him and I said I would.

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And I listened to his story and of course he did exactly like what you normally see

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in the situation where someone goes into kind of the paradise thing and not into the hell

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situation.

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But he was there, his heart quit beating the whole nine yards.

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They were in the middle of trying to do the, put the liver in the and everything went south.

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Okay.

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And he said he immediately was hovering above his body and that he could see everybody.

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He knew what was who put the people were in there and what they were doing.

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The doctors, he'd hear them clearly.

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Everything was happening in real time and that he was hovering above them and he was

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watching all this happen.

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Like me, he said, I knew it was me because I could look at me and see it was me, but

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there was also me and they're on the operating table.

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Dot dead.

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And then he said it was like a quick pull and he felt like he was going on under miles

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an hour through this tunnel.

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And he said he got up in through the tunnel and that he started meeting people that he

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had known throughout his life, like a grandmother, things of that nature.

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And they, you know, he knew them and they knew him.

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And as he got closer and closer up the tunnel that he got into this beautiful, beautiful

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light and most all of the ones that I've ever, you know, talked with about this, they would

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say the light you could almost feel it.

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It felt like love.

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It felt like you could feel, you could feel this love emotion that we typically maybe

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feel in the arms of our grandparents or something that you, that you feel this thing.

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And he said he could feel that emotion in the light.

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And as he got closer in almost to the gates, he believed that the person that he met was

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Jesus and that he told him he had to go back.

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And of course, everyone that's ever had a near-death experience and saw Jesus, I would

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tell you, not one of the cases that I've ever dealt with wanted to come back.

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I don't care if they were young, old, had children, had grandchildren, were wealthy,

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everyone that I've ever taught with told me, Joy, if I could have stayed there, I would

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have never come back.

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And I didn't want to hear you got to go back.

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And he said that he was begging not to come back and that he heard someone call his name.

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And he said, I turned to look to see what was, and he said, you can feel yourself coming

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back down into, you know, this tunnel.

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And he said, when he got to his body that he saw his, he was coming back and he saw

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his body laying there dead.

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Okay.

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And as he's coming in, he said, the weirdest thing happened.

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And I had never heard this before.

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It's quite interesting to me.

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He said, I flipped over and went in through my mouth.

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So that was a feature.

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That's unusual.

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Most unusual feature that I had heard because I had never had anybody when I had interviewed

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them.

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How did you get back in?

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I don't remember that I was laying flat on the bed.

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So I just remember standing and then all of a sudden being faced down in the pillow and

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pushing back.

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So I didn't know how I got back in.

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So that was an interesting feature that he said I rolled over and went right in through

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my mouth.

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And that's very common too for people to not remember how they got back in.

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But I think it's interesting that sometimes it's somebody calling to you that brings you

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back.

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And in his case, it may have been a doctor.

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Sometimes it's a loved one at bedside or something like that.

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Other times, and I've probably had, I don't know, almost half the people that can tell

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me about coming back into their body use a term like slammed into my body.

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Like it happened kind of hard and fast and wamo.

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And some people say, I didn't know how I could fit back in that body because I felt so big

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in that body, it looks so little, all these kinds of things.

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I think that's a fascinating topic right there, the whole coming back into your body.

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Well, you know, the thing that I had often wondered, you know, I've studied things in

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the Egyptian literature and they always talked about releasing the soul from the body and

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they use some kind of thing that they opened their mouths with and locked into the jaw

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some way.

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And so I've never really gone into that aspect of trying to understand, but that it was to

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free the soul.

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But the interesting thing is, I think they opened the mouth as if the mouth was where

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it was going out and coming in.

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But he was the only person that I've ever had tell me that he literally saw how he went

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back in his body.

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And it was, you know, through the mouth.

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Everybody else is just like I was, you were there one minute and all of a sudden your

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eyes open and you're like, whoa, I'm back in and whatever.

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And in lots of situations, it's very painful because this man talked about, he says, I

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had no pain.

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And he says, you go back into a body that's laying there that's been operated on, they're

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trying to do the liver the whole nine yards.

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And he says, you talk about excruciating pain when you're right back in and everything

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is as it is.

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And he talks about how they had no pain.

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One of the most interesting ones, and I'll tell this briefly, I was actually involved

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in a company where I interviewed people.

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This man comes in and we get to talking.

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And the first thing I noticed without saying anything is his whole face is totally destroyed.

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I mean, he looked pathetic and that was keeping him from finding work.

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So he was looking for me to help him find work in an area that would not be looking at

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him physical parents.

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And you kind of wanted to go, can you tell me what happened to you?

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But without being forward, I guess, in some way, and I never wanted to make him feel uncomfortable.

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But during the course of the conversation, he was talking about how he wanted to find

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something like an accounting or whatever, where he was not going to be face to face

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looking at people.

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I said, so can you tell me a little bit about what happened to you as a child?

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Because I thought maybe something, he was born that way.

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He tells me that he's a young man in his late teens and that he was riding a bicycle.

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He went to cross the street and didn't look at a car that was coming at another angle.

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He looked back and when he looked up, the other car was at him.

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And his bicycle hit the front of the car and his head went through the windshield.

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And he said, Dr. Joy, the strangest thing happened and I don't want to sound crazy,

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but I just want to tell you about what happened.

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He says, because most people won't believe it.

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Well, you know, I'm sitting there thinking, what is this man fixing to tell me?

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And then he starts on a near-death experience.

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Well, I want to tell you, Eric, I spent the other people that were waiting to be interviewed

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by me had to wait a long time before I let that man out of my office because he literally

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talked about the glass.

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He saw all the glass stuck into him and to his eyes and how he looked.

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He described it to a horrific situation, but he explained what I was seeing, how physically

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messed up he was in his face and his brain and everything.

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So he told about how his body, his head is stuck through that glass and how all the glass

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in the windshield was stuck into him and that he realizes all of a sudden he's seeing himself

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go through and he's hung in the windshield and then all of a sudden he is hovering above

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his body and he can see his entire body.

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He can see his bicycle completely crunched and he can see his body laying flat across

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the hood and his head is through that windshield with all that glass.

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And then he said he could hear people getting out of the cars and screaming and blood running

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everywhere off of that car.

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I'm sure it was horrific.

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And then he could hear somebody calling 911.

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He could tell you which direction people were coming, what they looked like, what kind of

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cars they were driving.

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And I was asking all these questions.

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Then he told me he could hear the ambulance coming in the distance.

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I mean, he was literally there hearing all of this stuff happening in real time.

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He said, but Joy, the thing about it was he said, I wasn't hurting.

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He says, I didn't feel anything.

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I felt perfectly normal.

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And he says, I'm looking at that body going, that is me down there.

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He says, he was totally lifeless.

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He says, I know that I was dead.

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He said, I know.

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He said, I was not moving.

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My chest was, you know, my back was not going up and down like I was breathing more.

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He said, I was dead.

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And he said, but I was looking at myself going, I'm not hurting.

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So then he said that he kept floating a little bit higher, a little bit higher.

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And he said, you could just see all the area from where the highways came together.

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And he said he just kept floating.

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And then all of a sudden he was in that tunnel like everybody talks about.

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And he was going and he started meeting people that he knew, grandparents, aunts, different

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people like that.

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And then he got to the Prilly Gates, the same situation, and talked about the beauty of

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all that was there.

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He didn't ever go into the gates, but he knew that it was heaven.

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No doubt it was heaven.

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And he said the colors, and that was another thing that the man that died on the table

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with the liver transplant, he actually went on to do a presentation for churches because

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he was in techno kind of stuff and he could kind of make it look like he saw it.

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But they all said the colors are nothing like the colors here.

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They're a billion times more bright and you could almost feel the colors.

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They said that they were just beyond explanation as far as the colors were concerned and the

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beauty of the plants and the trees and all the stuff that they were able to see.

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But like happened with the other guy that had the liver transplant, this man encountered

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Jesus.

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He explained what he kind of looked like.

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Again, he told he was going to have to go back.

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And he said, I beg not to go back.

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He said, I literally beg.

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He says, you have to go back.

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And again, he said he heard someone call his name and he turned and he said at the moment

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I turned he was like, shh.

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And he said, here I was now inside of an ambulance going to the hospital and that the guy goes,

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oh my gosh, he's back.

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You know, and he said, joy, the pain.

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The pain was unreal.

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I can only imagine just knowing how bad his face and skull and all the fractures that he

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had, how he had to be in so much pain.

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But he said he'll never forget that guy going, oh my gosh, he's back.

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The ambulance people, he was gone.

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They were having been working and working and working on him, trying to get back to the

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hospital with him.

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So it's pretty amazing stuff when you see the physical scars and you really realize what

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was going on and you got the opportunity to really know these people.

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And like I say, every person that I have had the privilege of knowing and doing this counseling

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with or listening to their stories and trying to incorporate them in the research that I

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do, every last one of them that had the near-death experience for paradise did not want to come

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back.

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And it's been all ages.

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I was in Walmart one day and when a lady was checking out an old woman, she said to the

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clerk, I'm just glad to be alive.

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And so the lady looked at her and she says, oh, it's nice to be alive.

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She says, yes, it is because she said, I died on a table in the operating room a couple

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of weeks ago.

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And the girl that was behind the cash register says, oh, really?

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Oh, okay.

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And she started taking my stuff and kind of pushing the lady away.

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And I was thinking to myself, I'm not believing this.

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I'm in line behind a lady that I just got to talk to.

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So the lady took off and I'm trying to get this girl to get me checked out.

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And I went running out in the parking lot.

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As fast as I could to try to find this woman.

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And I found her.

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Her doctor was a doctor that had known all my life.

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And so I said, look, do you mind if I talk with you about this?

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And so we must have stayed in the Walmart a lot for about two or three hours.

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And then I said, is it possible for me to call you and continue this conversation because

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I want to know all of this?

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But the interesting factor of hers was that the doctor knew her really well.

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When she died on the table, Dr. Morgan, his sweetest guy in the world, he's passed on

448
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,720
now, but he was a great Christian man.

449
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,760
And I knew him very well.

450
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,560
He kept going, don't you die on me.

451
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,560
Don't you die on me.

452
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,480
Don't you leave me.

453
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,240
Because the woman was an older lady and had been friends.

454
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:50,760
And he was trying desperately with every recitation method possible.

455
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,560
And he kept screaming, don't you die on me.

456
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:58,560
And of course, when she did and everything went flatline, she saw all of that.

457
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:04,680
And she saw how upset he was and the people in the room were before she left out.

458
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,840
And then of course, had that same kind of situation where she went in and believes she

459
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,480
believes she saw that Jesus and the same kind of thing.

460
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,480
She heard her name.

461
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,120
She was back in the body.

462
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,840
And of course, they had already covered her up.

463
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:25,760
When Dr. Morgan found out she was still alive, he came to her room and she literally did

464
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,680
tell him, this is what happened.

465
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:33,440
And she said, and I'm going to tell you that I know that I was outside of my body.

466
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,800
And she began telling all the stuff that happened and how it was set up and who the nurses were

467
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,640
and what kind of stuff they used, things, medical terms that she would not have known.

468
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:46,440
And she said, but I'm going to tell you that you were screaming at me.

469
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,320
Don't you do this to me.

470
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:49,840
Don't you leave me.

471
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:55,360
So things of that nature, Eric, when you see all of this and you hear all this, it's amazing.

472
00:30:55,360 --> 00:31:00,880
It's been an amazing ride for me to have had opportunities to get to know people on a personal

473
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:06,000
level about this and to have it be told to me.

474
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:14,520
Now, the ones that I've done where they actually saw hell remind me of the new movie called

475
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,840
After Death that has just come out the Angel Studios.

476
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,200
Yeah, I've seen it.

477
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,280
It's very well done for people.

478
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,480
If you haven't seen it, it's very well done.

479
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:28,720
It just came out at the end of October here in 2023.

480
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,320
There's also on our website, roundtripdeath.com.

481
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,080
There's a link to buy tickets there too, and people can find where it's playing around

482
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:37,080
them.

483
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,920
But go ahead, because the hell part is interesting.

484
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:47,080
The ones that didn't get the chance to see Jesus, really, if you go to see this movie

485
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:52,240
after death, you're going to see this man describe these black things that come to get

486
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:59,100
you and that you start falling into a blackness and that these beings or creatures start

487
00:31:59,100 --> 00:32:01,920
gnawing on you and tearing you and pulling you.

488
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:08,120
And I will tell you that the people that I've interviewed that have had that happen, one

489
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:15,160
of them said that they saw this last light that was a little tiny like a pencil light

490
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:19,200
and that they started screaming, Jesus saved me.

491
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:24,600
And that the moment when they did that, that they started going back up toward the light

492
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:29,120
and that they came back into their body away from all that.

493
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,520
But those people, they don't do anything wrong.

494
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,520
They don't drink, they don't cuss, they don't smoke.

495
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,120
They go to church.

496
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:44,680
They are truthfully, you know, they know, they know they saw what hell was going to be like.

497
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:49,880
And they know that there is an afterlife and their lives completely changed.

498
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:55,440
Like on the on the show, you'll see that those people were very aware that they had been

499
00:32:55,440 --> 00:33:01,880
in hell and that there is an afterlife and you better be choosing to follow into the

500
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:08,400
good side of life and not be choosing to follow into the satanic kind of side of life because

501
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,280
there is two places.

502
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,240
And that's one thing that I've noted.

503
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:17,520
There's either in a near death experience, either one in paradise or one in hell.

504
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,400
There's nobody floating around in purgatory.

505
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,400
Okay.

506
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:21,640
Hey, we're going so fast.

507
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,680
I'm going to take a step back real quick.

508
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:24,680
Sure.

509
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,560
One of the things that you mentioned about the person on the bicycle going through the

510
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,440
windshield of the car.

511
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,720
I find this fascinating and I've heard this before.

512
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,120
And that is in a traumatic accident like that.

513
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:44,040
It sounds like and in the case that you just mentioned, like that young man's body left

514
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:51,120
or spirit left his body before his head went through the windshield, which actually killed

515
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:52,120
him.

516
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:53,120
Right?

517
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:54,120
Yes.

518
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,120
I assume that it did.

519
00:33:55,120 --> 00:34:01,280
He just said that when he hit the windshield, that he saw the glass coming and I'm not seeing

520
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,040
that with his own eyes going into the windshield.

521
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,040
Okay.

522
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,800
It sounded like you were saying he was observing it from just above, which may or may not have

523
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,040
been, but I've heard from other people that have been in traumatic accidents, automobile

524
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:20,640
accidents and things that right before the moment of impact or the moment of flying off

525
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:27,520
a cliff, they were already out of their body and not experiencing physically that trauma

526
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,320
until later when they came back in their body, which I find very interesting and people can

527
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,640
make whatever they want out of that.

528
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,000
I'm going to let that go.

529
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,000
Okay.

530
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,880
That's what I wanted to talk about because you had mentioned pastors in your faith and

531
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:50,160
you're very strong Christian and I have had a number of people on this show tell me after

532
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,720
their near-death experience, they just were dying to talk to somebody about it and they

533
00:34:54,720 --> 00:34:59,920
thought, well, what better person than my pastor, my priest, my minister, whoever?

534
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:06,000
And I went in and I told this person and did not get the reaction I expected.

535
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:15,520
What a reaction that was like either that's something from Satan or you're crazy.

536
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,520
Let's talk about that for the religious leaders that are listening.

537
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,000
What can they learn from this?

538
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,440
Well, let me just tell you an experience.

539
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,520
I had a lady that I had known all of my life.

540
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:33,320
She was a doctor of education like myself and a very brilliant woman and she was a musician

541
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,760
and I was a musician, we had been together in the church for years and years and years.

542
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:43,560
She was a good bit older than I was and her husband had been a deacon for years and years

543
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:44,560
and years and years.

544
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,560
Wonderful.

545
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:51,640
So, I need school teacher at the whole nine yards and she goes into the hospital and dies

546
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:57,560
on the table and she has a near-death experience in which she is drawn into the tunnel, she

547
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:02,720
goes and she sees the whole nine yards, Jesus, paradise, the whole everything.

548
00:36:02,720 --> 00:36:09,360
And again, she hears her voice and she turns and she ends up back in her body and she

549
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:14,560
would tell you or she did tell me if I could say, like I say, everyone that I ever interviewed

550
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,560
said they would have stayed.

551
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:23,160
But she was at a meeting one day and we were having a dinner and I did not know this had

552
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,160
happened.

553
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,840
I knew that she had been very sick and she had been in the hospital and all these kind

554
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,400
of things a couple of months before.

555
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:34,600
And so, I'm in line getting food and she eases up to me and she says, Dr. Joy, she says,

556
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,040
is it possible that you and I might have a few minutes together?

557
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,600
And I said, sure.

558
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,280
And she said, well, let's just see if we can maybe go over there and eat at one of those

559
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,920
tables and it was away from everybody.

560
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,920
And I thought, okay, well, she's got something and she feels like she needs to, you know,

561
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,520
cancel, have to cancel or talk with or whatever.

562
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,560
So I went over there and sat down and she sat down and from me she says, now I'm going

563
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:56,560
to tell you something.

564
00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:00,680
And first of all, what I'm going to tell it to you about, she says, this is between you

565
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:01,680
and I.

566
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,560
And she says, and I don't want anybody else to know about what we've been talking about.

567
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,720
I said, fine.

568
00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:09,400
She starts telling me this near-death experience.

569
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,360
And I'm like, oh my gosh, you know, because I've known her all my life.

570
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,840
I mean, I know from the way she, her expression, the way she's looking at me, the way she's

571
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:20,320
describing it, I have noticed there's no doubt in my mind that everything she is telling

572
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,680
me is exactly as she saw it.

573
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:26,640
So I'm getting what I feel the most credible witness that I could get about near-death

574
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,560
experience and getting to see what she saw.

575
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:33,360
And I'm like, oh, this is wonderful because I'm thinking, you need to stand up in the

576
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,120
church and you need to talk about this and you need to tell everybody.

577
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,920
And she goes, no.

578
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,200
And I'm like, what?

579
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:46,480
She says, no, because my husband and I, he's just scared that if I do that, everybody's

580
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,560
going to think I'm crazy.

581
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,440
And that happens, unfortunately.

582
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,920
And I was like, no, they won't.

583
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:55,280
People need to hear this.

584
00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:01,320
But do you know until the day she died, she never stood up and did that.

585
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:09,680
And I'm going to tell you that that testimony would have been beyond words, Eric.

586
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,680
But I could not convince her.

587
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,600
You know, I'm the kind of person God gave me.

588
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,120
Like I said, I've had a lot of things happen to me, but I'm not afraid to stand up for

589
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,000
what I see and I believe.

590
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,600
You know, if you don't want to believe me, fine, but I'm going to tell it the way I saw

591
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,560
it, the most truthful way I can tell it.

592
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:30,080
And I feel like if you come at me with repercussions, though you're crazy, you're stupid, you're

593
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:35,040
off your DPN, whatever you want to do, you could go at me 100 miles an hour, but I know

594
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,200
what I saw.

595
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,360
I know what I felt.

596
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:38,920
I know what I'm aware of.

597
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:45,600
So, you know, I have never been affected by what other people think or do.

598
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:52,080
And thankfully God has always put me in positions that I didn't have to, like maybe working

599
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,240
for a company and they go, Dr. Joy, you can't talk about that.

600
00:38:55,240 --> 00:39:00,200
It's kind of like when John Mack tried to come out about the UFO phenomena and they,

601
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,120
you know, wanted to slaughter people who opened the gates to that kind of thing.

602
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,040
Professionally, they tried to destroy people like that.

603
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,840
And I think in the same cases when your death experiences that that has been utilized in

604
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:18,400
some ways too, oh, you're crazy, that didn't happen, you know, conspiracy, whatever, to

605
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,560
keep the truth from being known.

606
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:29,600
And I've always had the scientific mind and the desire to know what God wants us to know

607
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,360
and be open and honest about it.

608
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:38,480
So when I see science and religion converging to prove what scripture says, Eric, I feel

609
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,360
that's the most important thing in the world.

610
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:46,360
But why are some religious leaders saying, no, that didn't happen, you're crazy?

611
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:47,560
I think that they're scared.

612
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,360
I don't think that they have a lot.

613
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:50,840
I hate to say it.

614
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:55,320
There are some preachers who are anointed and you can tell they're anointed.

615
00:39:55,320 --> 00:40:01,200
There are some people that just want to go and be preachers and they learn what a book

616
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,520
says and then they just regurgitate the book.

617
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,040
But they don't know the book.

618
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,160
They don't feel the book.

619
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,800
They have not experienced the book.

620
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,680
And I think that's the difference.

621
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,720
It's kind of like playing basketball.

622
00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:22,800
If you had to read the manual to play basketball, if you've ever read, and I encourage people

623
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:27,720
to do this, if you don't believe me, read how to just dribble a basketball.

624
00:40:27,720 --> 00:40:31,680
And you've never seen a basketball and you don't know what dribbling is.

625
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,600
And see if you can figure out how to dribble a basketball, just reading about it, seeing

626
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:42,680
it, seeing the ball and absolutely having somebody show you how to do it makes a difference.

627
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,720
Because you feel it, you see it, you experience it.

628
00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:50,680
And I think that's the difference is that there are some people who are so caught up

629
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:56,160
and let's just keep it based on words alone.

630
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,160
And that's not the case.

631
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:59,720
It's not the case.

632
00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:06,600
And in Scripture, we know that there were times when even Jesus himself was transfigured

633
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:10,160
and his own disciples saw that.

634
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:15,720
And they wanted to build a temple to magnify what had happened there on that mountain when

635
00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:22,160
they saw him be transfigured and he's talking to supposedly dead people.

636
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,320
And then he comes back and he's still alive.

637
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:29,200
Again, it's like seeing the Red Sea parting.

638
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,440
Okay, the Israelites saw that with their eyes.

639
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,480
They walked through it on dry ground.

640
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,560
But a lot of people think that they can go where they just walked across and need, you

641
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,360
know, need deep water.

642
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:44,360
They don't get the power of the miracle.

643
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:49,680
And I think that's the problem is that there are a lot of pastors who are not anointed.

644
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:58,640
They do not understand how science and religion can make religion provable more so.

645
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:02,800
I guess it's because we've been taught to keep science over here and religion over here

646
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,600
and never bring the two together.

647
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,840
And all the work that I do and all the books that I write, I bring the two together because

648
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:15,840
I believe, and maybe that's the study of a lawyer as a young person, is that if I can

649
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:23,640
make the case more true to what it is, then I want to use every element that's out there

650
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,840
to show you that this is how it really, truthfully is.

651
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:36,440
And it's sad because I believe truthfully, I believe there are at least 10% or more of

652
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:43,240
people in congregations who have had out of body experiences and near death experiences.

653
00:42:43,240 --> 00:42:50,080
If they were allowed to stand up and tell their stories without somebody being critical,

654
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:56,200
putting them down, that that would give more credibility to people wanting to follow Jesus

655
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,480
Christ because they know there is an afterlife.

656
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,800
And right now, we just celebrated Halloween.

657
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:08,120
Look at all the death, look at all the stuff that you see this promoted in the squirrel

658
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,800
on a day of death, on a day of evil.

659
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,080
People don't get, I don't think they get it's real.

660
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:20,880
They really think that the devil is this little guy with these, with the pitchfork and horns

661
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,640
walking around and dancing on TV.

662
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:30,000
I don't think they get that we're talking about an eternity.

663
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:34,960
We're dropping the bucket at 100, we live all lived to be 120 years old on this planet.

664
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:40,280
That is a drop in the bucket as far as what will be eternal and forever and ever and ever

665
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,280
and ever.

666
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,080
And it's going to be one place or the other.

667
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:49,800
But our society is teaching people to think hell is going to be a fun place.

668
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,240
There is nobody that's had these near death experiences that says that was fun.

669
00:43:54,240 --> 00:43:58,040
They weren't having sex, they weren't drinking at a bar, they weren't having an orgy.

670
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:02,800
There was no Satan guy dancing around in a red soup partying with them.

671
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:07,360
They were literally being tor- and eaten and pulled and all the stuff that scripture tells

672
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,240
us the worm never dies.

673
00:44:09,240 --> 00:44:14,200
And I've told somebody, I said, even look at the tree that Moses encountered, you know,

674
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:15,760
the burning bush.

675
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,560
The bush was on fire, but it was not consumed.

676
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:24,240
When you are in an eternal body, you could burn and burn and burn and burn and burn and

677
00:44:24,240 --> 00:44:26,680
burn and burn and you'd never be consumed because you're immortal.

678
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:33,600
But people are not putting that in perspective that it's either paradise or hell.

679
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,960
And it's not a fun place in the hell.

680
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,640
And they need to be paying attention about what it said.

681
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:43,960
I read the book, I'm probably sure you have too, that Bill Weiss wrote 23 Minutes in Hell

682
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,960
that was a New York bestseller.

683
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,640
I mean, if you look at that, it was a traumatic experience.

684
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,040
It was nothing positive.

685
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:56,720
If you go to see that after death movie, you're going to see that that was a terrible, horrible

686
00:44:56,720 --> 00:45:02,560
thing to know that your body was being attacked in a spiritual dimension and you could feel

687
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:03,560
it.

688
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:07,360
And by the way, most of the experiences in the movie are positive.

689
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,800
Just I didn't want people to think it's all negative like that.

690
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:18,520
The reason that I brought this up about religious clergy a minute ago is not to put them down

691
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:23,760
at all, but to let them know, I think we need to listen more.

692
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:24,760
Amen.

693
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:25,760
Right?

694
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:30,800
I think there is something from these stories, whatever religion you're part of, I think there's

695
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:35,560
something from these experiences that people, number one, it's good for them to be able

696
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:42,120
to share and it's good for other people to be able to listen and learn from these things.

697
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:47,200
And if we do that in the right way, it can be a very faith promoting type of experience.

698
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,280
So that's why I brought that up.

699
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:50,280
I agree.

700
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:55,560
And I think, I think really angel production should be applauded for bringing this Christian

701
00:45:55,560 --> 00:46:01,440
movie to the forefront about this concern because I'm like you, the clergy needs to support

702
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:02,440
that.

703
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:03,440
Okay.

704
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,920
Let's go back to when you were six years old before we finish up here.

705
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,520
We're going in kind of reverse order all over the place.

706
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,520
That's okay.

707
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:11,520
That's okay.

708
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,920
And you talked about a dream that you had.

709
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,440
Hey, I had dreams when I was six years old.

710
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,160
I can't remember any of them.

711
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,200
I can't remember a dream from last week.

712
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,280
This must have been very special.

713
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,360
Tell me why you can remember it and what you dreamed about.

714
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:30,240
Well, you know, it's one of those things that I, in my lifetime, I've had dreams and then

715
00:46:30,240 --> 00:46:31,240
they stay with me.

716
00:46:31,240 --> 00:46:36,320
So I have always felt like that it was more than a dream because most dreams, like you

717
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,920
say, you might remember first thing in the morning, then they're gone.

718
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:45,960
But this particular dream, I was just a little South Georgia girl living on a farm.

719
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,080
I was in the bedroom with my sister.

720
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:49,360
I was six years old.

721
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,080
I laid down to go to sleep like a little kid.

722
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,960
I am asleep.

723
00:46:53,960 --> 00:47:00,200
And then all of a sudden I'm standing in this open field and I can see for miles and miles

724
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,200
and miles and miles.

725
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,560
And you misunderstand in South Georgia, we have pine trees and you cannot see for miles

726
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,920
and miles and miles.

727
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,080
So that was the first thing that I noted in the dream that I could see.

728
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:14,160
It was this huge valley, which no doubt in my mind, now that I've studied all of this,

729
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:18,000
that I was looking at the valley, which we know will be where the Battle of Armageddon

730
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:19,720
will be fought.

731
00:47:19,720 --> 00:47:27,160
And the destruction that I saw and the way the sky was magenta and how it looked in

732
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,320
the destruction that was there was absolutely overwhelming.

733
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:39,320
And the thing that was most noted was the loss of almost like sound.

734
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:45,920
It was like, it was this weird, weird phenomena that I can't really describe.

735
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,760
It was bone chilling.

736
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,920
And of course now in the stream, I'm six years old.

737
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:57,280
I am looking at me and I'm this little girl and then I'm looking around and I'm looking

738
00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,480
at all this destruction and how terrible it is.

739
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:05,240
And the thing, Eric, that I first realized is that there's nobody else left.

740
00:48:05,240 --> 00:48:10,800
And I'm standing there and I'm thinking, oh my gosh, there's nobody else left.

741
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,920
And I'm alone.

742
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,400
And destruction was just, it was beyond words.

743
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,200
And so I was about ready to panic.

744
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,280
You can imagine being six years old and thinking, I mean, just imagine you can't find your mother

745
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,680
or father when you're six years old.

746
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:25,680
How are you panicking?

747
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:29,240
Imagine what I was feeling like looking at something that I had never seen anything

748
00:48:29,240 --> 00:48:33,560
like in my entire life with fire and brimstone.

749
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,480
And just, it was just unreal.

750
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:42,160
I'm standing there scared to really dead and looking down at myself and I had my arm in

751
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:43,160
a sling.

752
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,760
It looked like he'd been wrapped.

753
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:51,240
And so I look around because I'm thinking, where can I hide and all this is terrible.

754
00:48:51,240 --> 00:48:59,080
And so I looked kind of to my left and there was like these huge boulders and they were

755
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:00,480
jagged.

756
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,680
And I'd never seen anything big boulders like that.

757
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:07,440
I mean, in South Georgia, it's just sand and clay.

758
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:13,600
So I had never seen anything like boulders, like big stones on stack on top of each other.

759
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:18,840
Now that I know and have studied those stones look like the Temple Mount where you got these

760
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:22,080
huge stones and there, and there were same color as that.

761
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:27,040
And they were stacked like this, except everything was gone except this one wall side.

762
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,440
And so I'm thinking to myself, that's the only thing that's left standing.

763
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,720
I'm going to go run and get behind it.

764
00:49:31,720 --> 00:49:37,840
And so I go running as fast as I can scared so bad and I run around the side of the wall

765
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,960
and there's this man larger than I stand in there.

766
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,360
I never forget he was dressed in this white linen.

767
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:49,680
He had this kind of gold kind of thing wrapped around his waist and he was staring out over

768
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,440
that wall.

769
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:55,200
His hair was flowing down on his shoulders and into his back and he had a beard and

770
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,280
he was looking at.

771
00:49:56,280 --> 00:50:00,920
And he looked so sad, but almost like the wind was like blowing through his hair, but

772
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:05,640
you couldn't feel the wind, but it was like his hair was doing that.

773
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:10,000
And when I looked up at him and you know, it's kind of like going from being scared

774
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,520
to death, to seeing somebody there and you're not by yourself and I'm looking at your six

775
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:18,080
years old and this is most tragic, wonderful thing you've ever seen.

776
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,600
It's a wonderful thing to see somebody standing there.

777
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:26,120
And so he turned and he looked at me and when he did, all I can say is it reminds me of

778
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,120
the way people talked about the emanation of love.

779
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:30,120
You can feel it.

780
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:36,400
It was like I could feel that and his eyes were as blue.

781
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:42,080
I mean, Paul Newman's eyes don't even come clearly and Paul Newman to me had the most

782
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,680
perfect blue eyes that I've ever seen in my life.

783
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:45,680
They were all inspiring.

784
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,120
And it's like, oh my gosh, you know, just a little kid.

785
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,240
You're like, you know, and you could feel it.

786
00:50:51,240 --> 00:50:52,240
You could feel his eyes.

787
00:50:52,240 --> 00:50:53,600
You could feel his love.

788
00:50:53,600 --> 00:51:01,480
And he looked at me and he was like, you know, I am with you always, even until the end.

789
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:06,320
And then all of a sudden I felt this feeling of like everything's okay.

790
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:14,720
And then I sit straight up in bed and I'm looking around and I'm going, oh my gosh,

791
00:51:14,720 --> 00:51:15,720
you know, it's a little kid.

792
00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:17,440
Well, it scared me to death.

793
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:21,240
So I go running down the hall to where my grandparents, they lived in the house with

794
00:51:21,240 --> 00:51:24,360
us and I would run down the hall to where my grandparents are in the room, they were

795
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,000
in the bedroom down the hall from where I was.

796
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,440
And I went to my grandmother.

797
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:33,080
She was my my son, he's school teacher, but she was also the later in life, senior school

798
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,320
teacher, but she was just my confidant.

799
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,400
And I was like, I called her mommy and I was like, mommy, mommy, mommy, wake up, wake

800
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:40,400
up.

801
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:41,400
You know, it's in the middle of the night.

802
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:42,400
She's like, what, what, what baby?

803
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:43,400
What?

804
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,800
And I'm just, I gotta go to the church.

805
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:45,960
I need to go to church right now.

806
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:49,000
And this is a six year old kid and she's going, you know, what's wrong?

807
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,000
What's wrong?

808
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:51,000
She's trying to console me.

809
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:54,800
I'm trying to go because I'm thinking this is six and to happen.

810
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,840
I'm like, I've never seen anything like it, but I knew I wanted to go to the church like

811
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,440
right then.

812
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:04,240
So she gets up out of the bed, she comes, she walks me back down the hall, she puts

813
00:52:04,240 --> 00:52:07,680
me back in the bed and she's, she's trying to console me and I'm going, we're going to

814
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:08,680
go to church right now.

815
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:09,680
We need to go to church right now.

816
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:10,680
And she was like, just calm down.

817
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:11,680
You just had a bad dream.

818
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:12,680
And I'm like, it's not a dream.

819
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,680
It's not a dream.

820
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,880
And I would, she'd go, just calm down, calm down.

821
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,800
And so she says, I'm gonna lay here on the bed with you just to get you to quiet and

822
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,120
down.

823
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,000
And so I was continuing.

824
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,520
I got to go, going to go to the church.

825
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:27,800
So finally she told me, she says, Joy, when it gets daylight, I will take you over to

826
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:28,800
the church.

827
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,480
Now, why I thought I needed to be at the church, I have no idea.

828
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:35,480
But it was almost like I felt like was the only place that you could have safety, that

829
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,040
there was something really bad coming and that I had seen it.

830
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:43,280
At that age, the next, that's morning when I, when daylight finally came, because I don't

831
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:46,840
think I ever went back to sleep because I could just see all that same stuff.

832
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:53,320
What it did to me at six, you know, because I had been in church like it's safe since

833
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:58,680
first week that was born, my grandmother always sticks to communion for the church.

834
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:03,680
And she would let my sister and I have the little great Jesus in the little bread at

835
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:04,680
the end.

836
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:11,280
Well, what happened, Eric, was now when it came time to communion, I wanted to take communion.

837
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,600
And she'd go, no, you know, you got to be 12 years old.

838
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,880
I believe that you had to be like the age of common ability to make a decision about

839
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:17,880
Christ.

840
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,440
I'm going to tell you from that moment on, when I would take and do that, I would think

841
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,920
about I knew, I knew.

842
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:30,120
So again, you know, I waited until I was 11 years of age and my sister was 10 and we joined

843
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,880
the church and gave her a life to Christ.

844
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,880
But I can honestly tell you, I knew that at six.

845
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:40,480
And I have, I told, you know, I told my mother and my grandmother and everything about that

846
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,000
I knew, you know, what was going on.

847
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:47,760
And I've told people, if you have a child at six years of age that tells you they're

848
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:52,120
ready to join the church, they're ready to give their life to Christ, you listen to them

849
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:53,720
because I knew the truth.

850
00:53:53,720 --> 00:53:56,520
I knew the truth.

851
00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:00,960
And sure enough, I had had preached that so much to my mother and my grandmother and my

852
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,520
sister who had heard it, that when she had a daughter, that child, that child at six

853
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,680
years of age wanted to join the church.

854
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:13,720
We were in church, that child wanted to join the church and she got up.

855
00:54:13,720 --> 00:54:18,840
And I thought if somebody says, you're not going to let that child go down there and

856
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:23,600
give her a life to Christ, I'm going to stand up and give a testimony that she needs to

857
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,200
be accepted at six years.

858
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:30,840
Well, because of what I had gone through, they allowed her to join the church and give

859
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,160
her a life at the age of six.

860
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,080
I knew the truth then.

861
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,680
I understood it.

862
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:41,400
I knew that this was going to happen to me in my life and from that day on, I had been

863
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,720
searching, reading the Bible.

864
00:54:43,720 --> 00:54:50,680
And what Jesus told me, I couldn't even read hardly other than run, spot, run, you know,

865
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,160
when you're six years old in the first grade.

866
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:53,760
I mean, that's a long time ago.

867
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,880
That's about where I was at as far as reading.

868
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:02,760
And then a couple of years later, I run across the very thing that Jesus says, you know,

869
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:06,920
you're not alone, I'm going to be with you always, even until the end.

870
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:12,880
And I thought it was weird because the word is, I will be with you always instead of always.

871
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,920
And he said, always, just like it was in the scripture, but I had never read that.

872
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:21,600
You know, years later, I'm like, oh my gosh, that's what he told me.

873
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,640
So it was confirmation.

874
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:29,560
And so then that led me on, you know, when I became 13 years of age, I sat down to read

875
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,160
the book of Revelation because I wanted to know the truth.

876
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:35,560
And how Lindsay's Great Late Planet Earth came out.

877
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,920
And I was in a Rexall drag store with my mother.

878
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,800
And I saw that book and picked it up off the little rack that went rounding around back

879
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:43,800
in the day.

880
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:44,880
So little paperbacks.

881
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,080
And I looked at it and I went running up to her.

882
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:48,080
I never forget the counter.

883
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,240
I said, mama, please buy this book for me.

884
00:55:50,240 --> 00:55:52,440
She looked at me and she says, what is this?

885
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,760
And I'm like, I want to read this book.

886
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,640
And I'd always been an avid reader.

887
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,560
I always loved reading.

888
00:55:58,560 --> 00:55:59,880
She finally gives in.

889
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:04,880
Eric, I went home and in that afternoon, I read that entire book.

890
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:13,480
And for the first time in my life, I was like, oh my goodness, somebody really understands

891
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,240
what I saw.

892
00:56:15,240 --> 00:56:18,560
But that was almost seven years later.

893
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:25,440
And if anything, you know, a lot of kids would laugh and cut up and have fun days and stuff.

894
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:32,680
It made me go inward because I would ask a hundred million questions of my Sunday school

895
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:33,680
teachers.

896
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:37,560
I had one man that would come out and look at my grandmother and go, Miss Selma, I don't

897
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:41,800
know where Joy comes up with these questions, but I don't know how to answer them.

898
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,120
I have no way of answering her questions.

899
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:49,040
She's asking me things because I would talk about what I, you know, be asking questions

900
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:50,760
about the end of time and what does this mean?

901
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:51,760
What does this mean?

902
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:52,760
What does this mean?

903
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:53,760
They could not answer.

904
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,760
Don't worry about it, don't worry about it.

905
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:56,760
It's just symbols.

906
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:57,760
It's just symbols.

907
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:58,760
It's not right for us to know.

908
00:56:58,760 --> 00:56:59,760
We probably will never know.

909
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:03,840
It's not something for you to worry about at this age, but Eric, it was.

910
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:05,920
And I never got away from that.

911
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:10,680
From the time I had that dream, it has been something that's always been a part of my

912
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:11,680
life.

913
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,520
I went on to school and studied to be a lot of different kinds of things.

914
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:19,320
I went on and got my doctorate, but I'm going to tell you the majority of books that I was

915
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,880
reading was still trying to find those answers.

916
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,800
That we are living at the end of days that I'm going to see this happen.

917
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:31,680
And I want to know everything I can know about our afterlife because it's real.

918
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:39,680
And the more I can give people true evidence and show them, then they can't be doubting

919
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,320
Thomas's anymore.

920
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:47,760
They will come to the truth and make wise decisions because we know, and I know that

921
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:54,280
my mind and my spirit body was just like this physical body that I'm walking around in.

922
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,280
And that it will live forever.

923
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:57,280
Jesus resurrected.

924
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:01,080
I mean, a lot of the research that I do is on the Stroud of Turin.

925
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:06,680
It clearly shows that he resurrected through that cloth and that one day all of us are

926
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:12,440
going to have a resurrected body that we do not literally die when he told the thief on

927
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:17,760
that cross that begged for him to remember him when we came into his kingdom.

928
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,520
Jesus said, this day you will be with me in paradise.

929
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,440
He didn't say you're going to be laying out there in the grave.

930
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:26,440
See, that's the thing that most people think is that all those people are laying out there

931
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:28,880
dead in those graves waiting.

932
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,040
No, they are not.

933
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:36,480
The moment you stop breathing, you are either headed to paradise or headed in the gates

934
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:43,840
of hell and the parable of the rich man and Lazarus that Jesus taught in scripture tells

935
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,760
you Lazarus was in hell.

936
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,600
He was begging for somebody to cool his tongue.

937
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:55,400
I have two more quick questions before we wrap up and we're about out of time here.

938
00:58:55,400 --> 00:59:02,280
Recently one of our episodes, we had an interview with a woman and her NDE was spectacular.

939
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:09,280
It was long and detailed and she met all these various people and I've had a couple of people

940
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,480
asked me since, do you believe that one?

941
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,800
Now I try to be very non-judgmental on this show.

942
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:21,960
Also if I feel when I'm doing the interview or previous to the interview, like maybe there's

943
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:26,760
some mental instability or something else going on, then it doesn't become part of the

944
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:27,760
show.

945
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:33,120
So my question for you is, how do you know who to believe and not believe when you hear

946
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:34,120
these things?

947
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:41,800
Well, I guess I've done them so much now that usually the first thing is that they don't

948
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,400
want anybody else to know.

949
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,400
If I got somebody that wants everybody to know and I want to write an article about it and

950
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:51,560
I want to become famous and maybe be on CNN talking about it, then I have a little bit

951
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:52,560
of a question.

952
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:54,400
But that doesn't mean it's a lie.

953
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:55,400
It's not true.

954
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:56,400
That's right.

955
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:57,400
That's what it means.

956
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:03,960
But it just doesn't seem that the people who really are genuinely wanting to know, did

957
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:09,520
this really happen to me and what I saw, what does it mean?

958
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,480
What is your research told you about this?

959
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:17,280
How does this line up with what other people say?

960
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:22,520
One thing that I have had a great opportunity and I think that the Holy Spirit has given

961
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,360
me is discernment.

962
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:25,680
I feel it.

963
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:33,800
I feel it's because I work with handicapped people and you had to read body language.

964
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:39,640
Body language will tell you so much in a person because sometimes people, they can't speak

965
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:44,600
good or they can't clearly tell you information and then they may do it in childlike terms.

966
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:49,960
So you've got to be looking at other things than just the person's words.

967
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:58,280
So I think discernment and body language and the ability to tell the story clearly over

968
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:02,040
and over without changing anything.

969
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:05,160
It doesn't become something different in time.

970
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:09,400
If you, it's like when I saw the dream, I saw it, but I remember that dream like if

971
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,960
I could close my eyes and relive it right now and see it.

972
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,240
And lots of times when I'm talking about it, I can see it happening.

973
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,160
I can literally visualize it.

974
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:25,040
So the people that I greatly have talked to, I have not run into anybody except one person

975
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:32,760
that I felt like had read something and used that to get in to see me, to just see what

976
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,360
I thought about it.

977
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:38,760
And I just never felt that connection that really happened.

978
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,200
And if it did happen, it happened the way they said it did.

979
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:49,920
But other than that, the people that I talked to, I think were as genuine in describing

980
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:56,920
it exactly to the T and really not caring about getting any kind of notoriety.

981
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,920
You know, I just say, well, you know, I'll never use your name.

982
01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:05,440
Would it be okay if I discuss this on a radio show if I write about it or whatever, you

983
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:10,120
know, that middle-aged woman came to me, I ran into you at Walmart, those kinds of things.

984
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,440
Nobody's going to know who your name is.

985
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:17,040
So it's never like take my name and put it out there, anything like that.

986
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:22,600
But I always felt in the discernment area of my life, and I have to do that a lot with

987
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:27,280
what I do, that I felt like everything was truthful.

988
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:31,320
And like I say, only on that one time that I feel like that there might have been, can

989
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,800
you help me get popular or something of that nature?

990
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:35,800
Right.

991
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:41,440
And I hope that we've never had anybody on this podcast that has made some things up,

992
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,920
but there's no way to prove one way or the other.

993
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:50,720
So I just want to give people sort of a little tool, you know, of how they can know for themselves

994
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,600
when they hear things and discernment makes sense.

995
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:58,120
And that is a talent that we can develop and become better at.

996
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:02,400
My last question is this, I love to leave our listeners with some kind of a message

997
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:03,680
of hope.

998
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:09,640
So from all of your experiences and all your interviews and all your research and all this,

999
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:16,120
can you capsize this very briefly into a message everybody is going to put a smile on their

1000
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:17,360
face today?

1001
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:18,360
Okay.

1002
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:22,440
Your soul is your greatest asset.

1003
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:25,160
It's going to end up in one or two places.

1004
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,200
Choose wisely.

1005
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:31,200
Is there any question that there is an afterlife or not?

1006
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:34,720
In my mind, there is an afterlife.

1007
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:41,920
And because of what happened to me, I honestly will tell you that it is a great knowing and

1008
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:45,120
it is once you know, you know.

1009
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:51,520
So live your life not believing that it's lights out or you're some grain of sand floating

1010
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:56,240
on a beach somewhere that everything is this has no meaning.

1011
01:03:56,240 --> 01:04:00,600
That's the one thing that I found in the research that I did for my book, Be Smart, is that we

1012
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,000
all have a DNA that's vibrating.

1013
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:11,840
We all have our own song and our own teen and our creator knows our song.

1014
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:12,840
That's beautiful.

1015
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:13,840
Thank you so much, Dr. Joy.

1016
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,320
I appreciate your time today.

1017
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:18,120
Listen, Eric, thank you for having me on this podcast.

1018
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:22,320
I've enjoyed it so much.

1019
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:25,320
Thanks again for listening and sharing this podcast.

1020
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:29,320
If you've had a round trip death experience, we would love to hear from you.

1021
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:32,560
Send an email to eric at roundtriptest.com.

1022
01:04:32,560 --> 01:05:01,480
Until then, I wish you everything good that you're looking for in this life and the next.